Your horse’s emotional state determines the quality of your training. When you learn to read subtle signs, regulate early, and rebuild trust throughout the session, everything changes. This post explores why the first five minutes matter and how supporting your horse’s mind creates softness, willingness, and true connection.
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Posture as a Symptom, Not a Cause
Posture isn’t the problem. It’s the symptom.
Both horses and humans hold tension as compensation for imbalance.
When we correct shape without understanding the cause, we create resistance instead of release.
True alignment comes from strength, balance, and trust – built from the inside out.
Silent Cues: How to Notice When Your Horse Isn’t Okay – Without Losing Leadership
Your horse speaks long before they react. Learning to notice their subtle “no’s” helps prevent bigger ones – but listening doesn’t mean stopping. Real horsemanship is about recognising discomfort, adjusting your approach, and guiding through it safely. Trust grows when awareness meets leadership.
When Training Fails: What Your Horse Is Trying to Tell You
When training stops working, your horse isn’t defying you. They’re communicating. Learn how to recognise the subtle signals of confusion, discomfort, and fear so you can rebuild trust through understanding, not pressure.
Clear Boundaries, Calm Horses: How Leadership Builds Trust
When you replace pressure with presence, boundaries become language, not force.
Learn how clear, calm leadership helps your horse feel safe, focused, and willing – the EquiKinder way. 💜
The Power of the Try: How Small Wins Build Big Trust
Recognising your horse’s try builds trust and confidence. When you reward curiosity instead of perfection, trust grows naturally. Learn how EquiKinder’s gentle, feel-based approach helps horses build confidence through softness, timing, and understanding. 💜
Elke & Lola – Session 4.2
Restarting a Sensitive OTTB Mare https://youtu.be/XRZSR8fk1h0 Every time a horse gets curious, every time a human pauses instead of pushing. That’s where the real connection begins. This episode is about slowing down enough to notice those tiny moments that change everything. In this episode, we explore how slowing the work down can create deeper awarenessContinueContinue reading “Elke & Lola – Session 4.2”
Sally & Freya – Session 7.2
Helping a Shutdown Horse https://youtu.be/q4JtqERqNbs Sometimes the most important rides are the quiet ones. There’s no drama, no fireworks – just a calm horse learning that having a rider can feel safe. And in the world of first rides, uneventful is often the biggest breakthrough of all. In this session, I focused on making theContinueContinue reading “Sally & Freya – Session 7.2”
Elke & Lola – Session 3.2
Restarting a Sensitive OTTB Mare https://youtu.be/7-kBK63ow5Y Sometimes the biggest breakthroughs don’t come from the horse at all. They come when the human learns where to stand, how to ask, and how to hold a clear boundary. This session focuses on coaching the owner through the basics of groundwork with feel. By revisiting familiar exercises likeContinueContinue reading “Elke & Lola – Session 3.2”
Elke & Lola – Session 3.1
Restarting a Sensitive OTTB Mare https://youtu.be/e0zNrw4WatQ Sometimes the most powerful breakthroughs in horse training aren’t dramatic. They’re found in the quiet moment when a horse chooses connection over resistance. In this real-time session, I revisit foundational groundwork with a mare who tends to push into pressure and is reactive when unsure. You’ll see how clearContinueContinue reading “Elke & Lola – Session 3.1”
