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Silent Cues: How to Notice When Your Horse Isn’t Okay – Without Losing Leadership
Your horse speaks long before they react. Learning to notice their subtle “no’s” helps prevent bigger ones – but listening doesn’t mean stopping. Real horsemanship is about recognising discomfort, adjusting your approach, and guiding through it safely. Trust grows when awareness meets leadership.
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When Training Fails: What Your Horse Is Trying to Tell You
When training stops working, your horse isn’t defying you. They’re communicating. Learn how to recognise the subtle signals of confusion, discomfort, and fear so you can rebuild trust through understanding, not pressure.
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Dodge’s Story: Preparing a Horse (and Human) for the Farrier
Learn how Dodge overcame farrier fear through trust, balance, and groundwork. A gentle, practical approach for calmer, safer farrier visits with your horse.
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Clear Boundaries, Calm Horses: How Leadership Builds Trust
When you replace pressure with presence, boundaries become language, not force. Learn how clear, calm leadership helps your horse feel safe, focused, and willing – the EquiKinder way. 💜
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The Power of the Try: How Small Wins Build Big Trust
Recognising your horse’s try builds trust and confidence. When you reward curiosity instead of perfection, trust grows naturally. Learn how EquiKinder’s gentle, feel-based approach helps horses build confidence through softness, timing, and understanding. 💜
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Settling the Debate: Should You Train Your Horse with Food Rewards or Pressure & Release?
R⁺ vs. R⁻: Which is better for training horses? It’s one of the most heated debates in horsemanship today. In this post, I unpack why this debate often misses the bigger picture, how each method can backfire (or shine), and why your horse’s perception matters more than your loyalty to…
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When Curiosity Gets Cancelled: Reflections on Social Media, Horsemanship, and Missed Opportunities
When a clinic I hoped to attend was cancelled after debate over bitless riding and “true collection,” it left me thinking. Was this really about collection – or just about how we define it? And what do we lose when social media outrage replaces real dialogue?
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Why Are Off-the-Track Thoroughbreds Crooked? Understanding OTTB Asymmetry and How to Fix It
Discover why off-the-track Thoroughbreds (OTTBs) are crooked, how to assess their asymmetry, and 5 proven exercises to restore balance.
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Why I Share Full, Unedited Horse Training Sessions – and Why You Should Watch Them
Discover why full, unedited horse training sessions are the best way to learn timing, feel, and connection with real examples you can apply.
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Red Flags in Riding Instructors: What Every Parent and Teen Should Know
Because how we treat riders is just as important as how we treat horses. When “Just Do It” Doesn’t Feel Right There’s a moment many riders remember: when something felt off, but they went along with it anyway. Maybe they were nervous. Maybe the horse was, too. But the trainer…
