Sally & Freya – Session 3

Helping a Shutdown Horse

In this solo EquiTrain session without Freya, I spent time deeply observing and exploring where Sally is truly at. This session became a rich opportunity to gather data, reflect, and meet her honestly in the moment. What unfolded confirmed something I’ve been sensing: while confidence-building is still on the horizon, what Sally really needs right now is choice, agency, and a felt sense of safety.

🧭 In this episode, we explore:

• How rhythmic pressure can create boundaries without removing choice
• The complexity of leading with energy when a horse is braced or shut down
• Why pushing for confidence too soon can backfire in sensitive horses
• The difference between “compliance” and “connection”

Sally showed us again how critical it is to listen beyond behaviour and to see the subtle moments where trust is built or broken.

🎥 No quick fixes. No fancy edits. Just honest, real-time horse training exactly as it happens.

📍 Filmed on the Mid North Coast of NSW, Australia.

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What You Bring to the Training Session Matters More Than You Think

You’re not just training your horse! Your energy, mindset, and body language all speak before you cue. In this reflective clip, I explore the human side of horsemanship and why congruence is the key to true connection.

How to Lead with Energy: Teaching Intentional Movement in Horsemanship

Learn how to guide your horse with intention, not force. In this short EquiKinder clip, we explore the power of “Leading with Energy” – a foundational exercise for building respect, rhythm, and responsiveness. Watch me and Sally develop a clearer connection through energetic leadership.

Trainer Confession: Why Mistakes Matter in Horsemanship

Raw and real. In this honest clip, I share the importance of leaving room for mistakes – both human and horse. When we let go of perfection, we open up space for learning, reflection, and deeper trust. A grounding message for all trainers and riders.

Understanding the Freeze Response in Horses: What It Means and How to Help

Does your horse stand still but feel “stuck”? This Equikinder clip breaks down the freeze response – a lesser-understood trauma behaviour. Watch as we work with Sally the Brumby to bring awareness to her shutdown signals and support her return to engagement.

Why Taking a Step Back in Training Can Move You Forward

Sometimes the most powerful progress in horse training comes from pressing pause. In this EquiKinder clip, I highlight a moment of intentional reset, showing how giving your horse space can re-regulate the nervous system and open the door to deeper connection.